One Is Love Should Never Be Enough!

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B013ZYPBLKI just don’t get the whole point of monogamy.  I mean really, just one person, for the rest of a lifetime?

Imagine, just one food for the rest of your life?
Imagine, just one beverage to drink, one pair of pants to wear, one suit, one shirt?
Imagine, just one soap to use, shampoo, toothbrush?

It is often said that marriage is the cure for a great sex life, and that is true, if a great sex life is there from the beginning.

If you are a man, imagine only tasting the emanations of one vagina for years, or even decades.  Do you know that all women taste different.  One beautiful, succulent snatch isn’t the same as the other. They have a different scent, a different taste, a different feel, and they all respond differently to your touch.

Imagine, having your cock sucked the same way two to three times a month, if that often.
Imagine, the same boring sexual position time after time?
Imagine, never savoring what another woman tastes like, feels like, moves like….

Just the same over, and over, and over, and over…

If you are a woman, imagine having to look at and touch the same cock each and every time you have sex?  Think about the same size and shape filling you time after time.  No variety, no change of pace.  And imagine, having the same taste in your mouth, each and every time.  Like women, all men taste different, feel different, have a different scent, make you respond differently and respond differently to you.

Variety is what makes life worth living.  Think of how incredible it would be to have a different lover several times a week.  A new scent, a new taste, a new position, a new shape, a new size… something exciting and different with each and every encounter.

That is what sex should be about… as many different lovers, as many different positions, as many different passions and many different experiences over the course of a lifetime.

Did you save yourself for that one special person?
Did you ever think about cheating?
Did you finally cheat?

Was that the thought enticing?
Was the new lover exciting?
Was it incredible to have a new person touch you, feel you, pleasure you, make you come in ways you never had before?

Abandon the puritanical bullshit that has been preached to you your entire life. We aren’t talking about esoteric, fantasyland, Hollywood, romantic love… We are talking about unbridle passion, insatiable lust, fucking and being fucked for the sake of our own hedonistic, selfish pleasure…..

To see the light, we must enter the darkness.

Chase new experiences, and embrace the wild.

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7 thoughts on “One Is Love Should Never Be Enough!”

  1. Really depends what you hold important in life, if it’s sex then great go and enjoy yourself as long as your honest about it. Maybe some people want something deeper and more meaningful. Just a thought !

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    1. I don’t disagree, but I will counter with what I wrote, and add, why can’t we have both?
      Monogamy is not a natural state, and it leads to jealousy. If we drop the pretense of fidelity, then there is never any infidelity.
      Good food, entertainment, education and enrichment are all important to people, but we never think of limiting ourselves to just one of anything, other than a lover.
      If we take the puritanical fantasy of monogamy off the table, and open ourselves to greater experiences, we become better people for ourselves, and if we chose a relationship to that person. Why define a relationship by one to one sex? Sex is one aspect of a relationship, why limit it to the relationship.
      If there is no monogamy there is no cheating, and then there is no hurt.

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      1. I don’t want both, I just want a monogamous committed relationship. Monotony is a natural state for me. For me your way of looking at thinks is more of a fantasy. I would be very uncomfortable knowing that my partner could have sex with someone else whenever they pleased, that really wouldn’t make me happy. Neither would I choose to do so. I’m completely happy to only have sex with one person and be completely contented by that. I don’t see it as a limitation, I just see it as a deeper connection. Even if you have an open relationship, there is still the potential for someone to lie and to cheat and run off with one of the people they are allowed to have sex with. For me being in an ‘open’ relationship would give me more cause for jealousy and anxiety than being in a committed, monogamous relationship.

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      2. I respect your point of view, even if I disagree. Thank you for taking the time to read and post…
        Hope, if you get the chance you will check out either of my books and give them a review…
        Have a wonderful holiday season.
        SS

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  2. Again I think it’s all down to personal preference. It wouldn’t make me happy to be with someone and know that they could be having sex with someone else. It’s not something I would choose, I’m much happier with monogamy, I want to be with someone who is also happy with that. Good luck to you if you can live the way you are describing but to me that is more of a fantasy and the likelihood of getting jealous and hurt is probably more. Maybe some people can live like that but definitely not for me.

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  3. I believe it’s down to personal preference. For me monogamy makes me happier than the thought of being with someone and them having the option of having sex with someone else whenever they choose. That’s not something I could live with or enjoy. For me that would cause more jealousy, anxiety and friction, and there is still the chance that that person will run off with one of the people they are allowed to have sex with. But I agree if it works for you then it works, but it’s just not for me

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